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natalie
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theres this boy that i used to like around 2 months ago, always told me to call him and all. then he said something bad about me  and i gave up loving him. he now has a girlfriend but i have fallen in love with him again, i cant stop crying for him and i am embarraced to tell him cause he is 18 and i am 13, please help!!! what shall i do about it?


it was at random that we met,
a chance not many get,
how was i to know,
that u would turn into my special friend,
someone who could be there,
until the very end,
no matter what i do,
i know,
in my heart,
that i can count on you...

i'm in love for sure this time
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July 24, 2005, 8:00pm Report to Moderator Report to Moderator

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okay, theres also something else. i remember he asked me for sex and i did'nt know what to say, then i said no. maybe thats why he got mad at me. does any 1 think i should have done it????? its happened lots of times. and i have lost many boy- friends cause of that. please help me


it was at random that we met,
a chance not many get,
how was i to know,
that u would turn into my special friend,
someone who could be there,
until the very end,
no matter what i do,
i know,
in my heart,
that i can count on you...

i'm in love for sure this time
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No you should not have done sex... that can wait for a long time. If a boy like you, then he should respect you, and then you get to know each other.


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Any boy who drops you because you won't have sex with him is not worth having - he is not interested in you as a person, only sex.

I think this boy hit on you because you are young, and thought you could be easily manipulated - but you can be stronger than that. Leave him alone. I know it hurts to love someone who is called for, but those feelings will fade in time.

Hope this helps.


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okay, theres also something else. i remember he asked me for sex and i did'nt know what to say, then i said no.


Good for you girl!!!

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maybe thats why he got mad at me. does any 1 think i should have done it????? its happened lots of times. and i have lost many boy- friends cause of that. please help me



Any bloke who dumps you because you won't have sex is an immature little pr@t, and needs a "Bobbitt" doing on him


Seriously, NEVER, EVER let a guy pressure you into sex:

1) You'll regret it (maybe )

2) You could catch STDs (never mind getting pregnant)

3) They will "do the deed" and usually clear off, leaving you unhappy (and probably with something in number 2)

4) MOST guys respect a girl if she doesn't say yes straight away (OK, so there's a touch of hypocrisy attached, but that's the way of the world.....)


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thanks all you its great advice. but i just can;t let go. i want to get to know him really well and maybe he can be a different person. but still he has got a girlfriend and thats what hurts me real bad.


it was at random that we met,
a chance not many get,
how was i to know,
that u would turn into my special friend,
someone who could be there,
until the very end,
no matter what i do,
i know,
in my heart,
that i can count on you...

i'm in love for sure this time
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this is a poem i wrote about him... its bad and it sux.


it was at random that we met,
a chance not many get,
how was i to know,
that u would turn into my special friend,
someone who could be there,
until the very end,
no matter what i do,
i know,
in my heart,
that i can count on you...

i'm in love for sure this time
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natalie
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i'll write it later.


it was at random that we met,
a chance not many get,
how was i to know,
that u would turn into my special friend,
someone who could be there,
until the very end,
no matter what i do,
i know,
in my heart,
that i can count on you...

i'm in love for sure this time
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but still he has got a girlfriend and thats what hurts me real bad.




All the more reason why he is nothing but a sh1t and you must let go.

Plus.... if you were his existing g/f, would you want him hitting on someone else? I know I wouldn't....



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i sent him an e-mail just half an hour ago.
just told him how much i miss him and that i know there was another side of him, a good side. i told him that i don't give a sh1t any more about his girlfreind. no girlfriend is gonna break my love for him. i told him to stay for real and be himself and not follow what his "so called friends" do. he sais that he has got to talk to me and work things out. cause he said that he wants to be a part of my heart again, and i said he already is.
he's so sweet and he's calling me tonight. wish me luck ya'll!


it was at random that we met,
a chance not many get,
how was i to know,
that u would turn into my special friend,
someone who could be there,
until the very end,
no matter what i do,
i know,
in my heart,
that i can count on you...

i'm in love for sure this time
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