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NeilT
August 24, 2005, 9:22pm Report to Moderator Report to Moderator

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I hope that you will adopt, or foster when you get older, that is just a nice thing to do. You may also have children of your own, to love, and when you do have your own children, your outlook on life does change, hard to explaine to those with no kids.

Seen my solicitor to-day, and feel a little better to what the future will hold for me, though in for a rocky year, I feel....
After past events with Jane, well, I aint all cracked up, like I did at the other times, in fact, she can just pi$$ off, now. It is only Lucy and Lee that I have at my heart.


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If any of the regulars here, that I "Know" would like to know and read something, that will show why I may seem a little "hard" at the moment, please PM me, and I will let your read some stuff that I put on-line a few years back, that may *shock* you a little, but you may be intrested to read, just let me know, and I will let you have the links.


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Well Neil , I don't know what happened an to be honest I don't think I could ask. I have gone through a rough ride as you know, and I got through it, just.
Only this week did I finally get the court order to finally relinquish the House I bought 13 years ago that some t**t now lives in, and ain't cost him a penny. But its going to  Cost her a good few grand though.

3 years ago I REALLY wanted to kill him, but now I see that letting him keep her is adequate revenge in itself. I know what that will mean. I can sympathise fully with whatever reason why you feel angry. I still do.

All that matters is Rhiannon & Sinead, my two girls. I miss them so much, but I haven't made life as hard for these people simply because of my kids. Life gets better as you know, but never easier. I hope I never have to go through that again, and I hope you come through it a stronger man this time.

Oh, PS, I ain't had my solicitors bill yet Neil....  thanks for scaring me to death!!




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Oh solicitors bills, well my last one was over 8.5K !! and I lost my old house that was sold for 150k, plus I had spent around 6 years paying 850.00 a month in maintenance !!! add that lot up, and that is what wife number one got from me, plus still paying just under 100.00 a week now to her, though that will reduce to 175.00 a month in Feb... But then it all starts again with Jane, with wife number 2 !!! no wonder I am always skint!!

I know what you say though about your kids, and the law of the land favours woman, like in a big way... Things with my wife number one, though worked out, and now we are better mates than ever before.

I aint angry about Jane leaving, done that in the past (this is the 6th time she has done it) but pissed off, as I thought she really had changed in recent years.. But as the old saying goes, a lepeard does not change its spots... A leason learnt here, and as I trust people, maybe a little to much in life, yet again it back fires.

I am though fooking very motivated to get on with my life, and get this on to another level, you can always knock me down, but I promise to bounce back up again

As I say, PM me, and read what happened, and you will get a better understanding, of the love I had, and why I am just pissed off.


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Well, looks like Jane will be gone by Sunday... And then onto the next stage in my life, another chapter closes, and another one is about to start.
Going to be nice to get into a bed for a good nights sleep!! Spent days camping then the last week, sleeping on the sofa...
Though it is going to be very strange here with no Lucy and Lee, and I am going to miss them so much. For Jane, well, what she has done to me in the past, and now this, well, goodbye...


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neil i feel rotten now,joking about women getting what they want,i had no idea.im glad for your sake that you have decided to get to the next level.

its true that the law favours the woman where kids are concerned,but mostly this is the proper course.i believe though that a man can be a good dad even when he doesnt live with his kids.

dont look on this as going to f--k-up your kids,it will only make it more painful.

i send you love,luck and all the best wishes in the world. youre a good person,and worth knowing.

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Ta for the message.. I am OK.. and hey, I have a good sence of humour, so no worries. As for releationships, well mark my word, I have the T-Shirt !!
Well, looks like it is going to be me back in my bachelor pad again   Boy, I am to old do live like I did last time   no doubt many stories will come from here, though, not as many as last time..


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i dont know what you lived like the last time,i can imagine though.

its a good thing that you realise you are older/different now,it would be a bit pathetic being the oldest swinger in town

seriously,you are a fun guy,you work hard,you are well grounded when you need to be.

and remember,you are the top banana.




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Yup things are different, I think that going clubbing as often as I used to would kill me now, plus some of the other antics I was doing.

I have polotics, and well if all is OK, then this is going to keep me very busy.

Jane has now packed and moved all of her stuff, she and the kids leave in the morning, its going to be horrible, with out the kids running around, and the place is going to be very quite. I know that this time it is going to take a while to adjust to living on my own, but done it in the past and survived, so no doubt can do it all again...

I bet I will here asking for help over my daughter, I aint got a clue how to bring up a daughter!!


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ill be thinking of you.

i hope you do keep busy for the sake of your sanity,for a while at least.

something new is always a bit scarey,you will cope.im sure.

nothing wrong in asking for help either,im sure thats what you would tell me.

and you will manage fine with your daughter,you learn as you go along.its not text book,but it is educating and also rewarding.

main thing is to not kick yourself,there are more than enough people out there that will do that.and not out of concern for you.

ill back you.



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