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Elfi
September 5, 2006, 8:30am Report to Moderator Report to Moderator

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I have an appointment on Tuesday next,(thought that was a bit long) with my Solicitor...see how it goes.



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I think your ex is being a totaly a*sehole.  Who in their right mind would give a young kid fireworks and an air pistol.  It sounds like he is only try to buy your sons affections, a big guilt trip going on here.  Stick to your guns as your son welfare is the main thing here.


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I will definatley be doing that Steph...



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Have to say while I'm in a similar position, although different circumstances, and even though I can't stand the mother for what she did, I wouldn't dream of anything like this, certainly not with 'toys' such as that.

I don't have the money to spend lavishly on the kids, as much as i really would like to, but I will explain that to them, that I don't have he money, and they do understand. But I also know they love getting the presents that I can afford.
I don't want to buy their affections, or be just a dad that they look forward to seeing because I buy them presents and sweets. I'd hate to think thats the reason they wanted to see me. For this alone I don't interfere with their mothers discipline, and I will enforce it while they are with me.
After all, they're my kids, not a weapon against her.

I think you're totally in the right. And sooner or later your little one will realise it, and the father will find out just how bad a plan it all was.




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I`m banking on it Corky....sooner or later my son will see things through wiser eyes...until then I`ll be "a spoil sport",but it has to be done.



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Quoted from Steph
I think your ex is being a totaly a*sehole.  Who in their right mind would give a young kid fireworks and an air pistol.  It sounds like he is only try to buy your sons affections, a big guilt trip going on here.  Stick to your guns as your son welfare is the main thing here.


Well said, i totaly agree on this


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Started this thread August 22nd, 2005, got my divorce a few months back.. And this morning I got my final concent order from the courts, which means... I am FREE!!!!
Also got my solicitors bill  
So, a new life sort of starts from to-day  


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Started this thread August 22nd, 2005, got my divorce a few months back.. And this morning I got my final concent order from the courts, which means... I am FREE!!!!
Also got my solicitors bill  
So, a new life sort of starts from to-day  


Congratulations Neil.
All the best in your new life (so to speak) I know that piece of paper from the courts can mean so much.



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Brilliant news Neil....A new chapter begins...



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A new start Mr T, a new start. Best of luck with everything.


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