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Sandra
July 4, 2007, 9:45pm Report to Moderator Report to Moderator

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I can really sympathise omj. One the one hand you don't want to seem a fool, but on the other hand, if he doesn't know how you feel, you may be missing an opportunity... tough one. I hope you find a way to ask after him.  


Onwards and upwards...
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I've been feeling so lovesick today, it's not true - I must come back down to earth, it's making me listen to wall-to-wall Morrissey!

Sorry for making a fuss, folks. But I'm so unused to having my feelings reciprocated, I have to assume they won't be. And I've never developed the radar to know whether blokes are interested or not. I feel such a twit.


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Quoted from omj
I've been feeling so lovesick today, it's not true


There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with feeling like that, nothing at all....


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Sorry for making a fuss, folks.


YOU'RE NOT!!!!!!  



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But I'm so unused to having my feelings reciprocated, I have to assume they won't be. And I've never developed the radar to know whether blokes are interested or not. I feel such a twit.


omj; stop it I told you before, you're a lovely person, and there is nothing wrong with how you are feeling - but you really shouldn't feel like a twit. We all go through/have been through these kinds of feelings and believe me, they are perfectly normal!!!!!!. Please. Don't beat yourself up over it - in fact, enjoy it - but don't expect anything, then if the "good" happens it'll be fab, and if not you won't be mega disappointed...

Chin Up - and STOP PUTTING YOURSELF DOWN!!!!



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I've been feeling so lovesick today, it's not true - I must come back down to earth, it's making me listen to wall-to-wall Morrissey!

Sorry for making a fuss, folks. But I'm so unused to having my feelings reciprocated, I have to assume they won't be. And I've never developed the radar to know whether blokes are interested or not. I feel such a twit.



That radar does`nt work very well anyway Lol.... where`s Steph with that magic wand.  

I hate it when you feel low, and you`re alone.... but it happens to everyone... dont confuse it with feelings for someone, could just be loneliness, hope it passes soon. Be thinking of you.  



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omj
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Wise words, Elfi.

I don't think it's just lonliness, though. But thanks for keeping me on an even keel.


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OMJ.. to feel so much for someone, hurts. And also to not know if, or if not anything will "happen" hurts even more. When I met Sandra, and we had been communicating with each other on-line for a while, well we just got chatting.. Met for a coffee, got on well, and then I asked, maybe we should meet up soon again. Sandra told me that she was busy, and it may be a few weeks.. I thought, that was a sort of polite *no no* but hung on in... and, well what more can I say, I not only met, but also married a very special person...

One day, one day... that right person will be there for you..... I have met you know a few times, and you have really special qualities, things one way or another will be just fine.

Do you remember that first OMD party you can to? how scared you were? Look now at all of the mates and friends that you have, and for those that you have met in real life.


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I don't think it's just lonliness, though.


No and neither do I.... Don't give up omj - all the negativity is irritating me!!!



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OMJ.. to feel so much for someone, hurts. And also to not know if, or if not anything will "happen" hurts even more. When I met Sandra, and we had been communicating with each other on-line for a while, well we just got chatting.. Met for a coffee, got on well, and then I asked, maybe we should meet up soon again. Sandra told me that she was busy, and it may be a few weeks.. I thought, that was a sort of polite *no no* but hung on in... and, well what more can I say, I not only met, but also married a very special person...

One day, one day... that right person will be there for you..... I have met you know a few times, and you have really special qualities, things one way or another will be just fine.

Do you remember that first OMD party you can to? how scared you were? Look now at all of the mates and friends that you have, and for those that you have met in real life.




Fantastic Post Neil!!!! - I couldn't have put it better myself....  




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No and neither do I.... Don't give up omj - all the negativity is irritating me!!!




Not being negative tho, just trying to be helpful.... and realistic. OMJ knows this.  



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Thanks everyone for all the helpful posts and PMs.

I've decided to put the energy into something productive for the time being - no point moping. Going on a health kick too - see another thread.

I am determined that something positive will come of this - whatever it is.


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