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djpamm31
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Dear friends,

again I'm sad.
The dog of my mom didn't eat for several days.There was something wrong with him.
So she went to the docter and get some injections,so he can eat.
Today an echo was planned,to see what is wrong.They had to go inside the dog,so he will get the narcose.......
Unfortunately he stayed into the narcose and died.
The dog was my best friend.When my parents go on a holiday he stayed at us.
This is the 3 time I loose someone.
In may we go to the funeral of a mother of my best friend,7 days later our rabbit Pluisje and now Poetsy.........We hope that Stan's sister,who'd also had cancer stayed alive 'till next year.But that is not sure.so maybe we have a funerall again.(she's very tired and had diabetics after the last chemo)
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Very sad news djpamm31, my thoughts are with you.



Nigel ?  Oh yeah, he's up there !
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So sorry to hear this Mariska. Sounds like your year is going as bad as mine.... thinking of you

Lots of love

Maxine
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Sorry to hear about your doggie friend.  


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that's too bad.  


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I'm so sorry to hear all of this bad news, my thoughts are with you - losing anyone you love, an animal or person, is so hard. {{HUGS}}


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Mariska, hope you & family are ok.

I felt I had to tell you of my cousin Michael. (age 36). I dont like sharing personal info but here goes

his mum Barbera is my dads younger sister

Michaels  sister passed away aged 18 after having leukemia. he was 21.
3 years previous his dad had passed over from a blood clot

It was a few years later and our Nan died, then great aunt Bella and shortly after that Uncle Jimmy.
Nan lived in his home and aunt & uncle lived a few doors away.
Before he was 28 his close Aunt Bren (older sister to my Dad) died from an embolism in the brain.
within in a few months his mum had a heart attack, she never came out of hospital.

Within a year Michael lost the house he grew up in. he was very depressed. It was re-possesed by the bank. he then seemed to vanish from our lives.

2 years ago contact was made by him.
he has a partner and young daughter of his own. he lives and works in Spain
he said 'he felt as if God had deserted him back then. he left because close family around him seemed cursed to die.
Although he now recognises all those deaths were not connected he is saddened that those relations were no longer in his life.
he greatly appreciates what he now has in life and makes the most of the time he has.
he said 'he'd felt deep pain but now could relish great joy.


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Thanks for sharing this... it does show light


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Hey Dave, that is a truly sad story

It does show that time does help though.... glad Michael has been blessed with his own little family.


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Sorry to read of the hard time that Michael had. Puts the stresses of tonight in perspective, though...  

Thanks for the share.


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more said news of my side.
I've had told you all,that one of my husband sister had cancer(since oktober last year)
We visit her friday last week. And I hope for her that it will be over very soon.She get's morfine(lot's of) and we think,that she will be live for maybe a week or 1.5 week.

And a couple days ago my best friend called me up.Her dad had also cancer. : (
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Sorry to hear this news Mariska.  


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more said news of my side.
I've had told you all,that one of my husband sister had cancer(since oktober last year)
We visit her friday last week. And I hope for her that it will be over very soon.She get's morfine(lot's of) and we think,that she will be live for maybe a week or 1.5 week.

And a couple days ago my best friend called me up.Her dad had also cancer. : (


Mariska, this is terribly, terribly sad. I hope that the time she has left is as peaceful as possible, and that she does not suffer too much xxxx


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I hope so to MJB,but last friday,Stan his oldest sister tells us,that his sick sister a vew days before we came,had lot's of pain.She said that she don't want to live any longer.
So I think she suffer to much.and I said to my husband,I hope for her,that she fall in sleep tonight and go to the other side of the universe,And I hope that she will be gone the next morning.
It's hard what I say,but maybe it's the best
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And I really do understand that point.


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I hope so to MJB,but last friday,Stan his oldest sister tells us,that his sick sister a vew days before we came,had lot's of pain.She said that she don't want to live any longer.
So I think she suffer to much.and I said to my husband,I hope for her,that she fall in sleep tonight and go to the other side of the universe,And I hope that she will be gone the next morning.
It's hard what I say,but maybe it's the best



Mariska, I was going to say something similar to that yesterday but I didn't want to upset you


On a similar note, my brothers' ex-wifes' Mum passed away yesterday, she too had had cancer, but it is doubly sad for Karen (my bros ex), and her brother Chris, as they lost their Dad only in January. What with my Grandad passing away in March (and they were close to him too), it hasn't been a great year for the family  





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it's getting worse.Tonight I called My husband oldest sister and she told us,that the morfine plasters working only less and his sister,is very confused,and panic al lot.She doesn't know how it's going on with the house hold.
So the oldest sister decided if it's tomorrow still the same,that they will call the hospital.
They also will call the pastor for her last sacrament.
everything is also been arranged for the funeral.

But on the other side I haven't told you.stan his oldest niece is pregnant(17 weeks)
so we lost one family member,but within one year we get one new life back
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Myself and Craig are thinking of you and Stan Mariska.... take care of each other

Maxine xxx


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As Maxine says, our thoughts are with you, in a difficult time...


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Hugs to you, Mariska.  


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I'll be thinking of you Mariska. Take good care of yourselves.


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dear friends,

today the sister of my husband passed away.She get a stronger dosis morfine and she slept in.
My husband is not sure if he's gonna work today,but I'm gonna work today.The whole day I've got a weird feeling in my stomach that this is gonna happen and for me it's better to leave the house for couple hours.Seeing other people.
There is enough time to flow some tears.

well I'm leaving now.I'm gonna eat something and then gonna work.

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Mariska, no words will make you feel better, but I'm sending you and Stan a virtual hug from Craig and I to try to help you through this sad, sad time  

If you want to talk, please feel free to post it up, or pm me if you'd rather chat privately.

So sorry for your loss, but at least Stans' sister is now at peace.

RIP and God Bless to all of you

Maxine
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Thanks Maxime.
Tomorrow stan will go to say goodbye to his sister(it's only for brothers and sisters)
And maybe monday or tuesday is the funeral.
It will be done in the church nearby

Mariska
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I don't envy Stan today Mariska, it's all so very sad  

The funeral will be a celebration of her life though; so should be bitter-sweetly sad instead.

I'm thinking of you

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The funeral of Stan his sister will be at wednesday.
I arranged with one of the mothers(enya is sitting with her youngest son at the playgroup)
THat she will pick up Enya and take care of her,until we get her.
otherwise she will run through the church,and I really don't like that,when small children do that.
I have Lucky,because that day is my free day and Stan had the day off.


I'm thinking of you  thanks Maxime - xxx -
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Mariska, until then, try to pamper yourself, and be good to each other.

I will be thinking of you on Wednesday; I have a funeral to attend on Friday too  


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